How I Came to Be So Happy

  • A humorous and philosophical essay that treats happiness not as a genetic gift, but as an acquired skill
  • By the author of the bestseller Minor Problems (over 100,000 copies sold)
  • Topics: practical life philosophy, the science of happiness, self-care, trauma

The ability to be happy is half inherited. Nele Pollatschek writes for all those who like herself don’t have happiness in their genes.

Scientific data proves that nearly half of our baseline capability for happiness is determined entirely by hereditary genetics. Nele Pollatschek did not inherit that happy gene. Yet, one morning, she finds herself genuinely and uncharacteristically happy. Through encounters with scientists and Hindus, psychologists, philosophers, writers and footballers, she explains how that shift came about. She talks about self-care and self-discipline, explains why trigger warnings are nonsense and why trauma is better than its reputation and above all, she explains how to become happy, even if you really aren’t cut out for it.

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  • Publisher: Galiani-Berlin
  • Release: 05.11.2026
  • ISBN: 978-3-86971-343-4
  • 160 Pages
  • Author: Nele Pollatschek
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Nele Pollatschek

Nele Pollatschek was born in East Berlin in 1988. She studied English literature and philosophy in Heidelberg and Cambridge. Her debut novel Das Unglück Anderer Leute ( The Misfortune of Other People) (2016) won the Friedrich-Hölderlin Prize and the Grimmelshausen Prize. Her second novel Kleine Probleme ( Minor Problems) (2023) sold over 100,000 copies. She writes for Süddeutsche Zeitung and was awarded the German Reporter Award in 2022.